Being 26 – Memoirs

I had other things planned for 26, you know? Have a child, build a house, start work on my school building project etc. Life said otherwise, which is why I do not dwell on long term goals.  For weeks, Passenger's song 'Scare away the dark' has been on replay on my music playlist because the … Continue reading Being 26 – Memoirs


How to be a real Nigerian man 

My friend John is a real man. The other day, he slapped Funke his wife for daring to put too much salt in his porridge. Can't blame him, like why would she even make such a silly mistake and claim she was tired after a long day at work? Was she not the one who … Continue reading How to be a real Nigerian man 

On heartbreaks and suicide

There is news going round about a fifteen year old girl who committed suicide because she was heartbroken from a failed romantic relationship with a boy. Along with the condolence comments are comments about how stupid she was to have even thought of killing herself. I am hoping that someone will read this and see … Continue reading On heartbreaks and suicide


I am putting this post up because it is one of the most searched topics on the blog. I believe most girls have been left confused as to whether doing a High Vaginal Swab test otherwise called HVS, would take away their virginity or expose their non-virgin status. Aidee is here to the rescue. After … Continue reading HVS, PAP SMEAR TEST AND THE VIRGIN