Sometime ago, a friend of Daniel’s came visiting and we all had a discussion. During this discussion came the topic of having a side job while managing a personal business. This friend said that no one who is serious about entrepreneurship has a day job. He believed that anyone who took the step to set up a company should understand that their focus must be on the company full-time. This opinion of his was not contested for long as I figured I had no time to actually counter his opinion. Read the rest of this entry »
Category Archives: RANDOM THOUGHTS
I live in a large compound with many families. One of my neighbours is an elderly Urhobo couple so when they found that I am an Urhobo girl, they informally adopted me and scolded me whenever I didn’t stop by to say hi.
Yesterday, I sat with mama for my Urhobo lessons but ended up listening carefully to her as she talked about how she was once a petite young lady who worked so hard to assist in training her children. She talked so fondly about her children who are now all married and how she ensured that her daughters did not end up being wayward.
I had other things planned for 26, you know? Have a child, build a house, start work on my school building project etc. Life said otherwise, which is why I do not dwell on long term goals.
For weeks, Passenger’s song ‘Scare away the dark’ has been on replay on my music playlist because the lyrics remind me to live. Living seems hard when there is so much going in your life, from the pressure of domestic responsibilities to the pressure of keeping up with the world. It gets hard really but taking it a step at a time has its benefits. Read the rest of this entry »
My friend John is a real man. The other day, he slapped Funke his wife for daring to put too much salt in his porridge. Can’t blame him, like why would she even make such a silly mistake and claim she was tired after a long day at work? Was she not the one who complained that she would rather work when John told her to stay home and be a full-time housewife? Now this?
I always said it, women should not be sent to school to study because it seems when they go ehn, their eyes will just open vaaam and they will be doing anyhow. Read the rest of this entry »
There is news going round about a fifteen year old girl who committed suicide because she was heartbroken from a failed romantic relationship with a boy. Along with the condolence comments are comments about how stupid she was to have even thought of killing herself. I am hoping that someone will read this and see things from another angle rather than judge her for taking her own life. Read the rest of this entry »